posted on 22 Oct 2020

Sona Sharma Very Best Big Sister by Chitra Soundar, illustrated by Jen Khatun

I have several stories that focus on the awaited arrival of a new sibling. This is not always an easy time for children as they are sensitive to a range of emotions - particularly if they are used to being an only child. The theme is often explored in picture books for younger children but this is the first time I have read one aimed at slightly older readers. Despite this each short chapter is lavishly illustrated throughout by Jen Kutun to help the reader picture Sona Sharma and her likeable extended family.

Although the story is set in India, the various cultural and religious rituals associated with welcoming a new baby to the family will be recognised by many children from a wide range of backgrounds. In this family, the tradition is to have a naming ceremony when the baby is ten days old. This allows parents and grandparents to decide on several suitably symbolic names to be solemnly whispered into the baby’s ear and then written on a bed of rice kernels. The choice of names are important decisions for everyone involved, including Sona who has been invited to help.

The main theme of the little book is how Sona manages the conflicting emotions about becoming a big sister. She is excited but very anxious about whether she will be good enough. Will she really be expected to let the baby play with her old toys and wear her favourite outfits? Will there be enough love and interest left over for her as everyone seems to be so focussed on the baby? The action is set in a house with a wonderfully described lush garden where Sona loves to play and dream with Elephant. Her favourite elephant toy plays the role of listener and wise adviser as she confides her various worries. I can imagine how this would be a basis for discussion by children, as they think about how they work through anxieties.

Chitra Soundar is well established author of more than 40 books for children. She grew up in Chennai, India and loves to open all children’s eyes to the rich feast of Indian stories that they might not easily come across. She paints a vivid picture of a busy but loving family life where humour, tasty food and storytelling pervades everything. The illustrator has a Bangladeshi heritage and explains:

‘Chitra’s story reminded me of the close bonds, traditions and memories of my family life’.

This is a warm story that will enchant readers and help them to reflect on their own family traditions as well as thinking about the importance of names and identity. Strongly recommended.

 

Karen Argent

October 2020